thanks, vero. i looked at them and i can honestly only put number 21 into the list of things i don't have to have. the others are pretty necessary at this stage of my life.

i've also added another to the list:

35. I need a man who will not discuss our marriage with his children.

M:63
H:53
S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23
M:15
T:16

Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways."
H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12
12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing