Dropping the rope, hope I'm doing the right thing.

[2chiquitos]

Now separate your list into 2 columns (or 3 if you're having a hard time with some). What is something you can not do without and something you can.

My old IC had me make a list like the one you made just before I met H (a week before!). When I met H I thought he was the man of my dreams because he had MANY of the characteristics on my list!