Yes, and I know how much it hurts. Your only hope is to make sure you don't do things that will push her away even more.
Appear to not be working on the marriage.
Go on with your life, no waiting around for her to come around. Do more things with others and on your own. Have fun. Do things that you know would really surprise her and perk her interest, but don't pursue her... let her chase you.
Create an exciting life of your own. Improve your appearance. Have a happy, positive outlook. Create interest.
Watch and notice what catches her interest. What makes her curious? What positive actions does she initiate?
Being rejected probably left you feeling like trash, but you've got to pull it together and make yourself into someone she would be interested in being with. This is my plan right now.
Have you read DR or DB yet? Best wishes, and keep us posted.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
