Fair points Denver. When my W was involved with OM I could have lit myself on fire and rode a unicycle around the kitchen juggling chainsaws and I don't think she would have noticed. My sister cheated on her husband and same thing, she had tunnel vision for the guy and my brother-in-law was invisible. Every sitch is different, I only have two data points of personal observation plus my readings here. I supposed in some cases the cheating WAS would feel less guilty if the LBS started dating too.
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LOL! No, I'm not saying that my W would have cared if I lit myself on fire, she probably wouldn't have! But she definitely cared if I was dating!
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
