LongRoad Sorry I haven't been around. It sounds like your husband is still a financial mess, and you still resent him for it.
Do you have children? The fact he is still being so irresponsible is very troubling. Now I'm not surprised you treat him the way that you do. I know earlier I told you to cut him so slack, but if he is jeopardizing both your careers, won't fix it, and then runs away because you get on his case for not manning up...well maybe it is a good thing he is leaving.
You should treat him well, but it doesn't mean you have to ignore what he does wrong.
