Lost and need some guidance Part 2

[Denver_2010]

Still sad W hasn't tried to reach out in so long...

Do you believe that you have not crossed her mind AT? If you do, I have some swamp land in FL that I'd like to sell you. It's close to your neck of the woods.

I think that she is testing you right now. She trying to remain in control by NOT contacting you. I'm mind reading a bit here, but this is what I have generally seen with other situations as well as my own.

Continue to wait. Be silent. The space is good. She no longer has you to go to for emotional support or to vent. Only OM. And THAT is good too. Push them closer and soon the luster will wear off of that R. That is what you want.

I would not reach out to her on this business trip if you do not hear from her first. The conversation does not actually have to take place at all. You are communicating to her right now... through actions. Eventually, IMO, she will call to check your temperature. And THEN you have that conversation.

I know it's hard. Hang in there.