Hey, Afa. Good idea to hide her on FB. What I've been doing is posting pictures of all my fun activities with friends, and my H got really curious. He wanted to know if I found any of the guys attractive or if they were checking me out, etc. Not like our current situation is great now, but at least it stirred some thoughts. So you might want to do the same and post pictures of yourself having lots of fun.
I would also convey that you will not tolerate the OM by not contacting her unless absolutely necessary, and showing the distance you need to show so she sees you're not going to be waiting around for her to come to her senses.
It's amazing to see how all the WAS behave pretty much the same way. I would like to know how many people have actually been able to save their marriages AND be happy in the long term by using the DB techniques. And I would like to know how long it took.
MY H finally texted a line today to say that my niece liked the birthday card I sent to her and to wish me a good weekend. Better than nothing, I guess, but I still have the ominous feeling that things took the wrong turn this past week.
Anyway, good night, and Alkaline, thanks for the advice. I'll use it too.
