Originally Posted By: Accuray
Rough,

The fact that she seems paranoid about you dating is a good thing. When she says that you would have her blessing, don't believe it for a minute. She's nervous that you're going to move on before she's made her decision on whether or not she is done and that's making her uncomfortable


A bit of mind reading here, but I tend to agree. She wouldn't be asking if she didn't care.


Originally Posted By: Accuray
If she were dating or had OM involved, she wouldn't care what you were doing at all.



I don't agree with this at all Acc. Sorry man. My W cared VERY much about what I was doing and if I was dating... even when she had OM in her life.

But, that's not to say that I think that there is an OM Rough. I'm just don't think that her asking you if YOU are dating tells us anything about what she is doing.


M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce