For the short term, I would not move out. If you have not seen a lawyer, make an appointment to know your rights regarding the kids. My H told me to leave. We discussed a trial separation and he said R would be on his terms only. Well, here I am 2 months later still at home.

Read DR, stop talking about the sitch and go about your business. It is HARD, but you can still give her some space while you are at home.


M44 H57
D17 (special needs)
M 18 yrs
Bomb 7/2/12
Still living together