Birthday party went well. W asked my mom is I had a date tomorrow because I told W I couldn’t watch the kids, it’s my weekend without the kids and W got pissed because I am not going to be a sucker and make things more “convenient” for her. I already told her a week ago that I couldn’t watch the kids tomorrow and she’s still pressing me on. I finally told her I had plans to go sailing and she dropped it.
Denver/vets, you around ? Here’s my question. When there's something conflicting with the schedule I am usually vague when I tell W I have plans, I prefer to keep it that way, I simply say “I can’t” or “I have plans” Is that ok to do?
Yes. Absolutely. IMO, you don't owe her anything more than that as long as she is making the decision to NOT work on your M.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
