Yes CB, our lives are filled with transformations/transitions. As we move from childhood to the teens or from the teens to adulthood we evolve and try to cope with the changes as well as we can. Reaching a time in your life when you become aware that you have probably lived more than what you have left might cause such a transformation in some people. Some go smoothly and remain unnoticed while others cause a wave of destruction in their path and these are called crises.

I admit that I may have used the term MLC to try to explain my W's behaviour because I could not fathom that I had anything to do with what was going on. It's no longer true. I am aware of the impact I had in my present sitch. I still believe that my W is going through one of these life transitions and is struggling with it.


Freshman Class of 2012

M-49
W-42
1D-10
T 10 YEARS
M 9 YEARS
EA/MLC 07/2010
Separation 28/05/2012
PA confirmed 31/07/12
W Asked for D 31/07/12
D on and off the table since then