one of my writings is about what i need in a mate. before i will be with anyone again, i will measure them by that list. it's not a demanding list of requirements at all. it's mutual respect, acceptance of change and differences, sharing, appreciation, trust, maturity, communication.
SS just read this thread and let me make a suggestion. If this above list is your requirements it might be a good idea to expand each item and lay out more specific things about each one.
Post it here before you send it and let Accuray or others critique you on it.
Kind of doing reverse DB'ing and breaking everything down into small obtainable goals.
My point being is how will you know that he is meeting the requirements of the list. Of course by actions not words. But is there anything else?
