Also 25yrmlc, I would love to go to a couples retreat! I think once we get back to a point where she is "commited" to making it work I will look into this further. The MC told us that we will Re-Evaluate my W's position at the end of 3 months. She said that there is no reason she shouldn't know whether or not she wants to recommit by then.

As much as I didnt like the idea when she first said it I kinda dont mind it now. This limbo is no place to be for years, and It would make it difficult to survive through the holidays with this on my plate.

I have been wearing the cologne I wore when we met, especial on days when I have work because I dress up nicely on those days. I think I might break out a cologne I used to wear from before her because it was VERY nice. Also I have pulled back some more and am getting a much more comfortable response from W.


Any other ideas or critiquing is totally appreciated!!

Mandy, what are a few things H could have done to help the sitch or prevent the sitch from reaching this point when you dropped the second bomb?

Me - 30
W - 28
M 4
t 6
ILYBINILWY #1 Jan - 2011
Band-aid Jan 11'
ILYBINILWY #2 7/28/12