Originally Posted By: 25yearsmlc

The disadvantage is that legally, in the country you are in, you lose your daughter if there is a divorce. IS that accurate?


Yes it is, unless my W decides to leave D8 with me. If we get a divorce, it'll be up to my W, where D8 will live.

Originally Posted By: 25yearsmlc

Lastly, let me ask you this** If you could somehow look into the future and KNOW that things with your w would not work out,

would you still want the next 2 years to spent with your d and trying to make it work w/your w,

or would you cut bait now?



I came back to this city so that my D8 would be with both her parents. No matter what the outcome is, I would be here, for my D8 and I would be doing what I am doing for my own sake and also for what I just stated above. There is a lesson to be learned here and the cost has been high. I have to make sure the lesson is learned. I hurt my W for many years. I know that for sure. it wasn't intentional but that doesn't matter. I did something terrible and now i need t make sure I don't do this to anyone else, especially not my D8. I MUST change.


Freshman Class of 2012

M-49
W-42
1D-10
T 10 YEARS
M 9 YEARS
EA/MLC 07/2010
Separation 28/05/2012
PA confirmed 31/07/12
W Asked for D 31/07/12
D on and off the table since then