i'll wait. i'm in no hurry anymore. i need to give it lots of thought because i see this as an opportunity to let him know what i want and, more importantly, what i NEED, which i haven't gotten in years.

if he thinks he can deal with it, we may have a chance. if not, better to know now instead of years from now after going through this again. as i told him, i can't afford to make more mistakes.

i have big doubts that he would be able to give me an equal partnership in a marriage, though.

M:63
H:53
S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23
M:15
T:16

Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways."
H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12
12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing