Tori, I'm pretty sure, like 100%, that there is an OM. I've seen the photo of W and him on FB. The funny thing, W's SIS, said that I had given "permission" to post it. I discouraged it, but ultimately said it was her choice of course, so as to give her space, not be controlling, let her make her own choices. It's just weird, to me at least, that she's lieing about this stuff. Do I address the lies, or wait to in the event that we reconcile? Also, I think that something has helped me detach are these two things. 1. The woman that I am currently married to is not the woman that I married. I love that woman, not this current one. 2. When any negative (mad / sad / anx) pop up, I am trying to use the STOP sign and then ask myself, "What can I do to better me?" rather than focus on those negative (natural) emotions.
