Thank you Cadet.

I have read DR, and I have a few other books as well. I feel as if I am in a pretty good place right now. Very positive, trying to to be care free. I know this will make me a better stronger person. And I believe with all my heart that I will get another shot at our marriage.

I would ike to share a little story that happened the other day. My mom went to W place the other day to see my son get on the bus for the first time. Afterwards my mom talked with my W for a bit. Asked her what she really wanted, W responded that she wanted a D, that she wanted to make it on her own. What I find positive is that she also stated that she wishes I was angry and bitter, so as to make it easy on her. So staying on the high road, being warm and friendly, seems to be the way to go. I made the decision awhile ago to not be angry. It is no way to live.

Couple questions, any advice on how to respond to, I miss you, or I don't want to fake it anymore?

Thanks

M:37
W:31
S:5
D:3
Bomb:6/2012
Sep:8/2012


Me 37/W 32
S 5
D 4
ILYBNILWY 5/12
Sep 8/12
Starting to find myself 11/12 on