IH Separation-continuing to grow as we grow apart

[Arsene]

Sorry Bond. I still don't see it. You did what you did but what did you have to lose? This guy was coming after you. Show me someone other than my W coming after me and my family and nothing will stand in my way. For the moment, all I want to know is how Bill and my behaviour is not following good DB technique.

We are both trying t be very patient by giving ourselves a very long and if I may say so myself, realistic timeline, we are both trying to focus on ourselves (Bill is better at that than I am) and improve who we are on more level than one. We both have managed to semi-detach from our sitch (again, Bill is much better than I am here) and are trying not to see too much in what is happening. DR states that the affair must run it's course. I know that in many cases forcing the issue has had positive results but then again, it's also been said that one has to be truly prepared to lose it all before going on that road.

All I want to know Bond is how what we are doing goes against good DB. I honestly thought Bill and I were doing well, and following the advice from DR as well as the one given here by many.

Thanks Bond,

Bill, I feel like I'm highjacking your thread. I apologise for that mate.