No Suppo, but as I'm learning myself, sometimes it's worth taking a step back to assess the sitch before saying or doing something. Now that OM is in the picture, and you've decided to fight for your family, what you need to do IMO, is process whatever anger you may have (and you probably have a lot of it) so as to not let it affect your judgment.
This is not an easy thing to do. I thought I was fine with it but now, over the last week or so, I'm realising that I am very angry deep inside and this comes out as my "good old" passive aggressive behaviour. I wish I had a good C but in this country it's difficult to find. I'm at number 2 now because number 1 told me that the field of psychology didn't not recognise MLC and continued his sentence by saying that in his opinion there was black magic involved.
My present C seems to be a bit better (at least she hasn't mentioned black magic yet) but so far, she doesn't seem to understand what I'm going through. She's not very helpful with advice and comments/suggestion on improving myself either as she only agrees with what I say. Nonetheless, at least I get to unload on her.
It seems I'm getting better advice from my meditation class teacher.
Anyway, I'm glad you seem to have a good C and that you are getting yourself back in the race.
Cheers mate!
Freshman Class of 2012
M-49 W-42 1D-10 T 10 YEARS M 9 YEARS EA/MLC 07/2010 Separation 28/05/2012 PA confirmed 31/07/12 W Asked for D 31/07/12 D on and off the table since then