I don't want to divorce my wife. And am not done even though I want this pain to stop. I don't know what's best apart from focus on me. Like you said "be the best Kevin I can be".
Yes the OM bothers me. I does make me think though all the reasons and things she has tried to blame me for or the faults she's tried to pick (they change daily) are not the reasons for her ended our marraige but it's more likely the high from her new relationship. (thoughts?). I think it's irrelevant. I think your course of action is still the same. You be your best self.
Her text to me tonight end with her sayin "speak soon :-)".
That was her that said that. I didn't ask. This is trivial meaningless stuff. ^^^ It's just civil and polite. Don't read into it.
Actually I said in my text "I hope you'll take care of yourself" in the terms of in the future. She replied with a text hoping I was ok - speak soon :-). I don't get that. Why say that. (wow I really am all over the place).
STOP....STOP reacting. Seriously, IT's NOT a "message"....you will KNOW when and if she changes her mind or wants back in or at least the signs will be stronger than these little symbols.
I agree with what you said 25years. Focus on me and make the best me. Let her second guess her choice. Don't be rude or angry. Give her space.
Am not going to contact her. If or when she contacts me am going to be polite, calm, and positive about things.
Sounds like a PLAN. Now stick with it and STOP the obsessing and reacting. GAL or you will go nuts.
Kevin.
Keep the support and advice coming guys and girls. Thanks too everyone who has replied so far.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
