Birthday party went well. W asked my mom is I had a date tomorrow because I told W I couldn’t watch the kids, it’s my weekend without the kids and W got pissed because I am not going to be a sucker and make things more “convenient” for her. I already told her a week ago that I couldn’t watch the kids tomorrow and she’s still pressing me on. I finally told her I had plans to go sailing and she dropped it.
Denver/vets, you around ? Here’s my question. When there's something conflicting with the schedule I am usually vague when I tell W I have plans, I prefer to keep it that way, I simply say “I can’t” or “I have plans” Is that ok to do? I don’t want to come across as ass however I also don’t want to give her to many details about what I am doing (even though it’s not much)
BTW, I always stick to the schedule when it's my time to have the kids.
