(And, please forgive the typos. Would be nice if the Edit button worked.)
Plus too, for everyone who thinks DBing is all about "standing" (egad I hate that superior, righteous, holier-than-thou word), you haven't gotten to the other side to fully grok what DBing is.
And finally, Brit, don't date seriously (and preferably not at all) until you get this: being able to detach is necessary for true intimacy. Detachment allows the possibility of intimacy, it doesn't kill it.
