brit is a very positive person. what i think she's found is that the separation from her H has enabled her to realize that the problems that caused her to be a WAW, in the first place, still exist with her H.
no one has the correct amount of time someone should stand for their marriage. some have stood for 5 years and not been able to save it. some less. it's an individual story. there's no looking down on someone who stands less. maybe they're smarter?
what she needs is support for what she's decided and where she's going. if she wants to date, so she dates. she's got a pretty good head on her shoulders. maybe she doesn't need as much time to know herself. maybe she's far and away more advanced than some. we're not here to judge. we don't walk in each others' shoes.
M:63 H:53 S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23 M:15 T:16
Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways." H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12 12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing
