Hey Zig, Good to hear you're in such a detached space about the money issues.
You're right (!) it needs to be sorted.

But just a word of warning based on my experience.

My H goes ballistic about these matters; seeing it as me exerting more of the same control that he is running from.

It triggers complete irrationality in him (well, that's my perspective).

So, just be prepared for things to go south quickly if he's anything like my H (a classic MLCer).

cheers,
NLW