I think I see the picnic!

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Thank you SS- I'm there with you. I like what you said, having patience does not mean you have to "wait".I totally agree! I thought that detaching meant I may no longer love him enough to want to DB. Instead it means I love myself enough to take care of my sanity in all this mess!

Thanks you zig- I'm so glad you put it that way, by working on ourselves until we are truly emotionally strong enough again to be able to say no, I don't need this, if it comes in this form. Again, taking care of my sanity/serenity!

And Thank you for passing along KDs advice! I do see myself trying to look into what he said but I find myself not really focusing on it too much like before! HA! Take that for detaching!

Thanks NG! You are abso-Frigin-lutely right! H does not know what to do with the new ME! Last night at my S4s school parent meeting a dad said hello to me as I was walking out. H asked, do you know him? I said, no ;-) I seriously didn't but it feels nice to get attention! (especially in front of him!) There ain't too many almost 40yo moms of 2 that look this HOT! LOL!

Thank Busting! Hero. More like survivor! I am coming out of this sitch a survivor from all this turmoil!

Love you all!! Hugs all around our picnic!