Thank you vero...it is extremely difficult to hear how she talks about OM and PA at times. I have asked the question before and she just responded with the "attention she got from OM". I said I could give her that but she has closed me out for now so trying is not an option. I continue to work on me and doing little things that make me a better person.
Her biggest issues is that she says she thinks about having the PA everyday. She is being very hard on herself as she can't believe she allowed it to happen (making matters worse to a slime ball). She says she needs to get over her thoughts about it if things will ever work (and she is not convinced about wanting it to work either). I don't know if there is anything I can do to help with what she is dealing with. All I say is that time will make things better but that it will take lots of it.
I continue to give her space and that is all I can do for now.
