I'm impressed with how your wife was able to tell you all this. I know it hurts a lot, but it's good she is able to verbalize all this. In my sitch I had to guess at all this cuz I couldn't bear to hear H talk to me about how he felt about OW.
Your next big step (if you haven't already) is to find out what is it that she enjoyed so much about OM. This hurt me a lot but once I recovered I was able to get to work!
Have a safe voyage!
M 42 H 39 T10 (-2yrs separation) S8 D5 DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA) Reconciled 6/2013 Separation in works 1/2017
