Of course you disagree with my and Denver's advice because YOU are doing the EXACT same thing as Bill. Both of you are walking on eggshells around your Ws while they run around with OM.
What I was trying to get across to you was that you are letting the immigration issue run your life so you're existing in fear. If that reality were to happy, in the end you end up with nothing. Same as Bill and his job. The fact is that you feel like you need to be on better footing before you do anything. And what I've been trying to tell you both is that you already are on better footing. That comes from within.
In my sitch, my W's boss (her EA) came to my working place to get me fired and even tried to have me arrested for some bogus charge. At that point it didn't matter how much money I had, what my standing was with the company, etc. Here was a guy threatening me and my family. I knew my W was deep in her EA with this guy but once he threatened my family, NOTHING else mattered. I looked him square in the eye and told him that while I loved my job, my family took priority and so he could do whatever he wanted and to do his best. I didn't know if he actually had anything he could do and in fact he really did know my boss, so losing my job was a reality. But none of that mattered. As a man you find out what's the most important and say what you will or will not tolerate.
And for me, I was not about to tolerate this @$$hole any longer. After that he actually looked scared for a change and I never heard from him since.
The power to change you sitch, right now, is within you. There will never be the "right" time for things to be perfect. You find the strength within right now to be the change you want to see.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
