Tomorrow is a New Day

[hopefulinga]

Thanks for the long response, I will try to do my best to answer.

First, what are you doing to work on you? At the beginning of your thread, you mentioned that you had some issues, and others became apparent as I read thru your sitch. Do these sound like they fit:
- jealous?
- critical?
- controlling?
- insecure?
Where do these come from? How are you addressing them?

Yes, those fit. I do know why I some of them, and see IC to try to work through some of it. As for other things I am doing for me, I was exercising and going to some social events while D16 was with my mom. That has stopped some now that she is back. I teach as well. I sit on the board of some organizations that I feel strongly about.

I like that you read 5 LL and have started the codependence book, but are you really digging into your own issues? Do you even know what your H's LL is?

Not at this point. I've thought about sending him the link and asking him to tkae the assessment, but I've chickened out.
I think I am going to do it when he gets home.