Hey Brit, After BD, the first thing I told my IC was "I don't want to become one of the angry, bitter older women who have never gotten over the break-up of their marriage. Please help me avoid that."

With her help, this site and the many other things I've done in the last 2.5 years (only 18mos separated)in the last couple of months I've felt that I'm succeeding in that. It's a great feeling.

I think the most important thing is feeling you have control of your life.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss