No, you're doing the right thing. If I met a guy and he was cool with introducing me to kids within a few months I'd think that was weird. Your kids shouldn't meet anyone until it's a sure thing you know?
I am giving myself permission more and more to be who I am and not what I thought I should be or what other people want me to be. (or what I think they want me to be???) Acceptance of yourself is a good thing. Not a rebellion like yeah you never liked that and look at me now...but just confident in the things you like and who you are. Good for you!
Ps do you ever check out Michelle WD's DB facebook page? I really like what she said today about hollywood giving us unreal expectations.