I think this is why in the past month or so I've wondered if this forum is for me anymore. I've made incredible friends that I hope to keep in touch with forever. But I think as soon as you decide to move on and that includes meeting other people there's a lot of resistance.
I'm not attempting to save or stand for my marriage anymore. He has continued so many behaviours that upset me during the M that just show a distinct difference in core values between us. I have done so much work in detachment, acceptance and forgiving myself. So I'm okay with where I am at the moment and my choices.
I understand that other people have been/are on a different timeline than me. I work with a woman who was divorced 20 years ago and is still very bitter and angry not only towards her exH but men in general. I never wanted to be that person.
I just picked up Facing Love Addiction and have the Solo Partner on it's way to me. I'm still learning. I recently ended it with the person I dated during August. I took it slow, got to know someone, and ultimately decided I didn't want to continue it.
