Hi and welcome Brit. I do have to show some support for sun. It sounds like you db'd for about 3 months from what you describe here, and then gave up on your marriage at that point. I agree that getting a life is an important part of divorce busting, but so is the actual divorce busting part. You do sound like you have almost maybe moved on too quickly, not processing your feelings maybe or whatever, and facing your issues. I can see why sun posted what she did. A lot of us (most of us?) here in this section DB'd for years, something like 5 years in my case. I don't want to be harsh, but I can understand Sun's reaction to your post. We should be supportive here, but also be welcome to point out things that are not always positive imo.
