Hi Kevin- I understand your pain, I am there with you. If you’re having “long conversations” with her, I would suggest stopping them. From your posts, it sounds like you might want us to give YOU the answers that YOU want to hear. You also mentioned, “how should I read into that”. Well, I think you know the answer, don’t read into it and DON’T let her know that you’re going to minimize the communication with her, just do it.
Your also asking if this is “a good or bad sign”. I feel there’s no good or bad sign. At this stage in your sitch, there's just to much speculation. Remember the term, don’t believe what they say? I would suggest that you stop taking the focus off HER and make it more about YOU. How often do you talk with W? How often do you see W? How often do you call W? What do you usually talk with W about?
I can tell from your postings that your asking lots of questions to members on this forum, that's great. It's obvious you want to learn and improve yourself. I understand your feeling low about yourself, that's natural. Make sure to take care of yourself Kevin and stay strong.
Freshman class of 2012 Me(M):38 W:43 Together: 14 Married: 11 D: 4 S:8 W wanted separation 5/5/12 Stopped living together 5/5/12
“Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal; nothing on earth can help the man with the wrong mental attitude”. Thomas Jefferson
