Had a conversation with my DB coach yesterday. IRS isn't going to negotiate debt down. I said it was pointless getting the CPA involved any longer, as he could file the paperwork for an natal lent plan on his own. He agreed. I asked if he wanted me to do it for him, he said no. Issue with that is, he is probably not going to do it. I spoke to my coach about this and told her I would rather just get it done and file it and not tell him. She asked how that would make him feel. I said he would probably not even care as someone would do that for him so it is one less thing he has to do.
He has been a little more standoffish since the news about the IRS. He did however, send me a link to a groupon for a tablet he wanted and asked me what I thought about them. I told him my thoughts and that it seemed like a good purchase. He went on to tell me about the price, how much his next check would be, and his plans for the week with regards to work.
I also had to bring up the fact that I am coming home soon. I didn't do it during a phone conversation, but instead sent him a text message. I just said I realized I didn't have a house key here with me, told him around when I would be back (driving and it takes 24 hours to get there) and asked that, if he was not going to be there, if he would leave me a way in to the house. He replied with 'ok.' whatever that means.
Last night he was supposed to call but he stayed late playing poker. I sent him a message that I was going to bed, and said goodnight. He replied back with he had been playing poker late, and he hoped I had a good day today.
This up and down is hard for me. I am journalist here versus sending him more messages, and emails, but it is not easy. I just wish I knew what I was going home to. We are still commingling finances in a joint account, I am still paying bills (he doesn't like doing finances,) we are still sharing what we are doing with each other, he just doesn't want to talk about 'us' which frustrates me to no end. I know I need to be patient, do this is just me griping since I can't talk to any one else!
Me- 29 H - 36 T - 5y M - 2y D - 11 months BD#1 June 2013 BD#2 H files 10/28/13 Retrouvaille Nov 13 BD #3 H Files 2nd time 4/22/14 Fires L 7 days later. No court dates set Supposedly he's moving out?
