So, its been over 6 months since h left. Well, the support of his family has dwindled, his son does not speak to me or the 3 children with me; h is continually avoiding me acting as if I do not exist - not that i have tried to talk with him -but he has to come by my office for business and who does not stop by to speak to their wife?
he recently spent huge amount of $ to take ow to dr - as she must not have insurance and supposedly visited his mom by himself. i find this hard to believe since it has been over a year since he was at his mom's house and continues to tell his family they need to accept ow as they are together now.
h has not mentioned anything in reference to family nor does he know what goes on day to day at the house - i.e. the dryer broke, then the washer, the hotwater heater had to be replaced, the mower broke and there are huge problems between my son and me - as he never respected me but loved my h. i think son is mad at the situation as well as the other children and i get the brunt of the anger and problems.