That is exactly what I need to repeat to myself. I need to act like nothing has changed. I will not try to get close physically or emotionally. I will treat it as a friendship - pick her up, go, then take her home and drop her off. Done.
Me:42 W:43 M:03/08/98 SD17, D13 Found out about affair:12/16/10 Found out again: 06/22/12 Split: 06/22/12