It is uncanny how similar our sitch's are Mandy. I mean to the letter almost. I know you are differant person than my W but your thought process and what you said and did in your sitch is almost to the letter what my W did.
After she dropped bomb #1 we had some of the best and most passionate sex, we had great times together communicating and laughing and being spontaneous. Then it slowly faded yet again because we LET it.
Now she has the first Sexual spark in over a year and for the first time since we had been together it wasn't for me. And here we are..... I am sad that you are going through this sitch but I am glad you are here. I feel we have a lot of insight to offer each other on our sitches.
This morning I made W and I our normal shakes and sent her off to work with nothing more than a hug and a "have a great day". Normally I would have held the hug as long as I could, or gazed into her eyes to ask for a kiss, not today and no more backsliding!!
She wants space she's gonna get SPACE while still having a loving, supportive and honest H right in the house.
LOVE will win the day and I WILL be a better person because I want to be.
Me - 30 W - 28 M 4 t 6 ILYBINILWY #1 Jan - 2011 Band-aid Jan 11' ILYBINILWY #2 7/28/12
