X demands full custody because I'm now engaged

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I'm sure my kids are fine. X tends to flip out about things and she projects a bit. In addition she commented when I told her C wouldn't talk to me/couldn't work with me, "the reason I wanted us to go to her was so we could work this out."

I'm certain she's already talked to a L and knows she has no grounds (read power) to force a change in custody so she's looking for another tactic. She looked absolutely miserable when I took kids to her at our regular swap time after refusing to allow her to pick them up early. Maybe the C ready sees through X's plan and is just derailing it. It's a family counseling center that no doubt deals with such issues regularly.