Yes, he told me it was the *only* thing missing from their R. It was something that worried him greatly, esp since it's a 'sign' of a rebound R when you'd rather just hold someone. That missing passion, along with her desire to be a mom, were two "red flags" for him.

And OK, maybe not every day like it has been, but the FUN should be there always. Yes, even in 20 years!