Hi folks,

Well I done the help getting the house ready to sell. I thought it was a nice thing to do. Later on that evening while visiting a friend of ours (the friend doesn't know all the ins and outs) and the friend basically confirmed my wife has been seeing someone else. No names or times mentioned and I didn't ask but it seemed obvious it was the guy she had the affair with and it's still going on. Her exact words were "she's mentioned she's sorta seeing someone".

Am at my wits end with all this. Any idea of going dark which would have been in the past a tactic to sort this out is now a genuine going dark and the only communication will be between lawyers.

I've offered her ever olive branch and every chance to be up front and honest with me and it's terrible knowing am being made a fool out of.

What should I do? What's the advice of members on here?

Kevin.


Me-38W-28.
M-2 1/2.
Together-7 years
OM-14/4/12
Told M in trouble-17/4/12
BD-5/6/12
S-5/6/12
ProofOM-17/06/12
Start to change me-31/08/12
EA+PA-14/04/12-now

I need more than help I need a miracle