For me getting a GAL has been interesting. I like the fact that I am doing my own thing now, however 3 years ago I was the one who had a PA. and for me I am so afraid me getting a GAL will be looked at as she is having an A again. For me that has been the biggest conflict. I want to save my marriage just as I did 3 years ago, but this time I have been the one who was not doing anything. It just seems like all of this would be settled with a bit of communication.
