i'd have to think you're right. of course her father is paying for her attorney and never liked me. he always thought that she was supporting me financially which even if that were the case (it wasn't) shouldn't be a big deal anyway. what i meant was that she was supporting me through my disability and subsequent surgery to fix it.
still... our whole history seems like it was someone elses life that she was living. it's strange. if there were 10 negative and 100 positive things all she is remembering is the negative things. i'm afraid of what that level of animosity will do to my son. he already calls me the "telephone parent".
