And it's our 'thing' - something we've done very well from the very beginning...and passion is one thing he didn't have with OW.
This is part of showing him what it could be like, if he could find his way to trust me again. I let a few hangups, along with my lack of trust in him, get in the way and that part of our R died.
I know you're right, it doesn't really help - though it is a great stress-reliever
