Hi Mystify, thanks for sharing and I feel for you. My W is intent on just doing her own thing. The 1st few weeks were extremely hard but similar to you I have found the last couple of days to be ok. I to am working on becoming a better me and trying to GAL. My W is out at a work outing and staying with one of her girlfriends. I focused on my children tonight and went for a run after work (this is part of my goals). Sharing my experience with everyone on this forum has proven to be helpful for me. Please continue to share your sitch. Knowing that I am not alone in this helps me. I continue to tell myself...space, time, and patience!

Thank you!