Thanks Mandy,

I can tell you right now I will not stand in her way of going on a retreat. The only thing that could happen if I do is push her further in the wrong direction. I will continue to support her in her decisions and be the better man. I will continue to work on myself. One of the things I find hard to do is find some new friends to do things with. I really know that separation is the only way for someone to be missed. Whether its a week a day or a month. I just hope she can find her way back.

One question for you Mandy, did you lose sexual attraction to your H and have occasions where you felt a sense of sexual attraction to someone outside of your M?


Me - 30
W - 28
M 4
t 6
ILYBINILWY #1 Jan - 2011
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ILYBINILWY #2 7/28/12