Was this the right way to behave? It just seems so counterproductive…….
It may seem counterproductive but I can tell you that DB'ing is most times the opposite of what logic will tell you.
You need to take logic and throw it out the window.
Do the best you can for your son and make sure that they know that you love them.
You can not control the relationship that your husband has with your son. Your job is to stay out of the way.
It will be your husbands job to eventually rebuild his relationship with his children, but that may not be right now.
I think it is a good start on how you behaved. His behavior was fairly typical. It may make no sense to you but you must just let it go and try to continue to detach.
