With my promotion/transfer, I will be moving, as I mentioned, to the same city as OW. With that, our home will be *very likely* bought by my employer.
So my H has to move out of our house. And he doesn't want to buy because of the state of flux in his life right now, and it's too soon to move in with me or OW - so he went looking at apartments. There aren't many "nice" ones around and he happens to likes mine, so he'll be moving into my apartment once I move out & the house sale is completed...So he came over to measure the apartment for his stuff, or at least that's how it started...
Part of the freedom of his "pause" with OW means we can fool around. And that's how most of our conversations either start or end. And now that I'm no longer feeling like OW, it's been so much FUN! Hard to believe that I missed out on all this fun for the last couple of years...
No hopes, no expectations - just enjoying the moments.
Also, last night was the first time that we met in person and I didn't end up in tears. That's progress - I think!
He's still undecided and still feels messed up - and that's OK - I understand. There's a lot going on and with added pressure from moving. Today I kept up my end of the deal and only messaged about the house sale, as hard as it was not to ask about anything else...
