B, You want to focus on your d's birthday party and who will be attending. The more you try to point out that you are trying to make him feel comfortable, the more he won't. You want this party to be a normal affair for your little girl. You want her father to be there, so keep to the party and if something should arise at the party, deal w/it then.
I would remove the following sentences:
Second Paragraph: "Don't worry that anyone will say anything that will make you feel uncomfortable. I have spoken to them."
Fourth Paragraph: Remove entirely.
Fifth Pargraph: remove: "Please tell me if there is anything else I can do to make sure you are as comfortable as possible. Don't worry the information y ou can me last week will not affect me."
Leave in: "I, like you, am really looking forward to this day.
You can leave in the last sentence if it's necessary.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
