Time for an Introduction...and Thanks

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Thanks for the support Brian.
You're right, in fact H has said as much. He doesn't want the responsibility. Funny thing is, all throughout our marriage he didn't really have any. He could pretty much go to work, come home and that was it. Even THAT was too much responsibility???

I'm starting to feel that I don't even want to be a friend. Not the way he is now anyway. I've read so many times here "this is not the way a friend treats another friend" I'm starting to believe it. I've made too many excuses for his behavior these past 2 years and nothing is changing.

My attitude is a work in progress and can change on a dime but I'm working on it. I want to be an example for my children and as sad as it sounds right now I don't want my D thinking it's OK to be treated this way or my S thinking it's OK to treat someone he loves this way.